Reliable Work Is the Floor, Not the Ceiling
Measure your work by whether clients tell a friend, not by whether they were pleased.
In brief
Clients expect you to do the work well, on the day you said, at the price you quoted. Because they expect it, a job that goes as promised gives them little to tell a friend. So measure your work by a higher standard, which is whether the client tells someone about you. Keep your promises on every job. Then look at which clients have passed your name on, and what their jobs had beyond the work.
Imagine a home organizer named Wren Calloway who has finished 40 jobs in three years. She arrives when she says she will. She finishes each closet, pantry, and garage on the day she promised, at the price she quoted. Her clients thank her, pay the same week, and tell her they love the result.
In January, Wren goes through her bookings for the year. Every new client found her through a search or through a moving company’s list. Not one came from a past client.
Mrs. Ashby is one of those pleased clients. Wren unpacked the Ashbys’ kitchen after their move in the autumn. In March, a friend at the tennis club tells Mrs. Ashby about her own move, and how she dreads the unpacking. Mrs. Ashby says that her organizer was fine, and that everything got put away. The friend hires the organizer her moving company suggests.
Suppose instead that Wren goes back to the Ashbys’ kitchen two weeks after the job, as she does after every unpacking. She asks Mrs. Ashby what she has had to hunt for. Mrs. Ashby says that the twins cannot reach their cereal, so they climb the counter every morning. Wren moves the children’s breakfast to a low drawer. She labels it with a picture of a bowl, because the twins cannot read yet. It takes her 20 minutes.
In March, the same friend mentions her move. “Use Wren,” Mrs. Ashby says. “She came back two weeks later to see what wasn’t working, and now the twins get their own breakfast.” The friend calls Wren that week.
Wren did the same job both times, on the same day, at the same price. In the first version, Mrs. Ashby got exactly what she paid for. She was pleased, and she had nothing to tell a friend except that it went fine. In the second, the kitchen worked for the family who lived in it, and Mrs. Ashby had something to say about it.
So the measure of your work is not whether a client was pleased. It is whether they tell someone. Here is why reliable work is only the start, and what goes past it. Here, too, is why a pleased client sometimes says nothing.
Clients expect the work done well, so it gives them little to say
Here is the course’s view of why. A client hires you expecting the job done right. They expect you to arrive when you said and finish on the date. They expect the price you quoted and a tidy house when you leave. When all of that happens, nothing has happened that the client did not expect. They are pleased, and the story ends there.
Reliable work is still where every job starts. When a client gets less than they expected, they do have something to tell, and it is bad news. A finish two weeks late or a surprise on the invoice reaches the client’s friends by the following month. The floor also rises with the client. What impresses one level of wealth is what the next level expects as a minimum.
So keeping your promises protects you from bad word. On its own, it does not give the client a reason to bring you up.
The standard is whether the client tells someone
The course uses one standard for the experience of working with you. Did the client tell someone about you? Its reason is that most wealthy clients find a professional through someone they respect. A client who tells a friend is how your next client arrives.
A thank-you tells you that you reached the floor. A friend who calls and gives the client’s name tells you that you went past it. Give each client time, because a reputation usually needs a year or more to reach the people who ask.
A firm owner had five years of delighted clients and almost no referrals
In 2023, the owner of a firm wrote to the Business Advice column in Business of Home, signing the letter “Missing Link.” The letter described more than five years in business, “during which all projects have ended successfully, with delighted clients.”
“Yet in that time, I have gotten very few referrals from clients,” the owner wrote. “What am I doing wrong that past, repeat and current clients aren’t referring people to my firm? Is it really as simple as asking for a referral?”
The letter gives no detail of the projects beyond their success. Measured against this lesson, every one of them reached the floor. The course’s view is that delighted clients who say nothing got what they expected. Five years is longer than a reputation usually takes, so waiting is not the answer.
Asking everyone is not the answer either. The course suggests asking only when the client has named a friend who needs your help. What is left to look at is the job itself, and what happened in it beyond the work the client paid for.
A New York designer went back after the install, and credits it for her repeat clients
Davina Ogilvie runs Wovn Home, an interior design firm in New York. In 2022, she told Business of Home how her firm finishes a project. After an install, she said, her firm keeps in touch and asks the client how it went.
On one install in a Manhattan apartment, construction was still going on. So the firm covered the drapes it had installed in shrink-wrap. When the client moved in and the wrap came off, the drapery needed more steaming and training, “which we did for several hours without extra charge,” she said.
She knew the trip could have gone on the bill. “It’s a small thing we can do to build trust and goodwill,” she said. “I think this is in large part how we’ve developed repeat business.”
The install was the job, and it was done. The client lived with the drapes after the install, and that is where Ogilvie’s firm went back. She credits repeat business, and the step to a client telling a friend is the course’s own. Here is the step. The hours went into the client’s own home, as the client lived in it. A client sees that part of the job with their own eyes, and can describe it to a friend.
A personal chef’s first clients loved her cooking and told no one
Shirlé Hale is a personal chef in the Triangle area of North Carolina who writes a memoir on Substack. In 2023, she wrote about her first paying clients, a couple who were both lawyers and were expecting a baby. After her first day of cooking, she left them flowers in a vase. She also left a card welcoming them to their new free time. Then she set the kitchen table for their dinner.
The couple wrote that night that they felt “so spoiled.” Hale cooked for them every Monday for two years. Once, the wife told her that they could not let anyone know they had a personal chef, not even their family. When her parents visited, she told them that she had made all the food herself.
Hale asked whether they would take some of her brochures to their law offices. They gave a vague answer, and she left a stack with them anyway. “They just couldn’t do it,” she wrote.
By this lesson’s standard, Hale’s work went past the floor, and the clients still told no one. Their reason had nothing to do with her cooking. They did not want anyone to know they had help. So judge the standard across all your clients, never by one. A client who keeps you private is still a pleased client, and the brochures did not change their reason.
Why going past the floor while missing it goes wrong
Imagine a caterer named Idris Penrose who cooks a 60th birthday dinner for 16 at the Whitfields’ house. The menu promises dinner at eight. Mrs. Whitfield has mentioned that her husband grew up in Lyon. So Idris decides to surprise him with a dessert from his childhood, and he spends the afternoon on it.
The dessert takes longer than he planned, and dinner goes out at a quarter to nine. The guests love the dessert. The next week, a guest asks Mrs. Whitfield about her caterer. “The dessert was lovely,” she says. “We waited almost an hour for dinner, though.” The guest books someone else.
Idris’s dessert was a good idea. His mistake was giving it the time the main course needed. The guest heard about the wait first, because a broken promise is news. The version that works keeps dinner at eight, and Idris makes the dessert the day before. Then Mrs. Whitfield’s story is about the dessert.
Going past the job is not working for free
Doing more than the job can feel like giving work away. If every job ends with an extra visit, the extra time has to come from somewhere.
Wren’s return to the Ashbys’ kitchen took 20 minutes. Ogilvie’s firm spent several hours on the drapes, and she counts them as part of how the firm earns repeat clients. If you plan a return visit after every job, as Wren does, it is part of your work. So price it into your fee, and the client never sees a charge for it.
How to hold your work to the higher standard
- Write down your floor, the promises every client gets from you. Make each one something a client could see. For example, a photographer might write that she arrives 15 minutes early and delivers the gallery on the date she gave. She might add that she never bills more than the quote.
- Keep the floor on every job before you add anything to it. If something you planned beyond the job would break a promise, drop it or do it another day.
- List your clients whose work with you began more than a year ago. Next to each name, write whether they have told someone about you. Count a friend who called with their name, or a client who told you they passed it on. For example, a specialist realtor might find that three of the 14 families she sold for in 2024 have sent someone.
- Compare the clients who told someone with the pleased clients who did not. For each one who told, write what happened in their job beyond the work you promised. For example, a personal trainer might find that both clients who sent friends had surgery during their time with him. He visited each at home afterward to set up their exercises.
- On your next job, plan one return to the client’s result after the job ends. Ask what is not working, and fix it. For example, a personal stylist can text a week after a closet edit, “Is there anything you’ve reached for and not found? I can come by Thursday and move it.”
- A pleased client may tell you that they keep you to themselves. Leave it there, and tell no one that you work for them. Do not hand them cards or ask again. Their reason may be about your work, such as not wanting their home to look like a friend’s. Then tell them how you keep each client’s work their own. For example, an event planner whose client says she tells people she planned the party herself can say, “Of course. Nobody will hear otherwise from me.”
Next: You will see how to design the experience of working with you from what you notice about each client.
Apply this
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Write your floor. List the promises every client gets from you, each one something a client could see.
For example A music teacher might write that lessons start on the minute and that the week's practice list arrives by Sunday. She might add that the term's fee never changes during the term.
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List your clients whose work with you began more than a year ago. Mark each one who has told someone about you, and write how many that is.
For example A dog walker might write that four of her 11 households from last year have passed her name to a neighbor.
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Write the question you will ask a client after your next job ends, and the date you will ask it.
For example A florist might ask a client, a week after her first weekly delivery, whether the arrangement suits the room it sits in. She will ask on Friday the 9th.